I have been following Otto Fong's, a Singapore teacher who came out on his blog, case quite closely.
Her analysis is so brilliant I wish I wrote it! But I don't want to talk about human rights; I want to talk about bigotry. Let's take "Ponder" for example. S/he writes:
"Is he encouraging RI students to experiment with homosexuality? I believe that many gays started out when someone older approaches them and manages to persuade them that it is ok to experiment with their sexuality. With blogs like Otto’s, these teenagers would be much more easily 'persuaded'. If an adult wants to be a gay, then I would say that they are making a choice as a mature person. But to impart such values to impressionable teens (especially by a teacher), then I say that is stepping out of line."
My response: If we can encourage a homosexual lifestyle, why don’t we encourage a heterosexual lifestyle to the gays? In this way, everyone will be straight.
Or Mr Guay, who describes himself as a "teacher in training". He says:
"1. There's no need to declare you're gay. Same reason why I don't declare myself a straight person, nor the fact that I enjoy gambling especially mahjong. What's the point?
2. If he has truly loved teaching, and loved his students (pun intended...), then he would not have done something to jepoardise [sic] his teaching career.
3. I would admire him more for suppressing his own desire for whatever he seeks, so as to serve the greater good."
My response:
"1. You don't have to declare yourself as a straight person because the society takes it for granted you're straight. From this, we can see the bias of a society: heterosexuals on top, homosexuals at the bottom. The point of Otto Fong's declaration is 'silence = death'. He needs to be honest with himself and others if he wants to start living his own life.
2. You gotta be kidding me, right? Do you want your career or your life?
3. I would admire you more for suppressing your own heterosexual desire for whatever you seek, so as to serve the greater good, i.e., if you don't marry and have children, you'll have more time for your students. I think you should sacrifice your life for the greater good."
(How I worry for our future generation when we have teachers like Mr. Guay.)
From the two case studies, we can conclude that bigotry=stupidity. Being a bigot doesn't give one the right to be stupid. If you're a bigot, then at least be intelligent in your prejudice and hatred! Will the real smartass bigot please stand up?
At this point, I would like to invite all bigots back to your closets. The world is not big enough for you.
- Music:James Blunt - 1973


Comments
Oh wait, I forgot - according to those people, gays are all depraved, promiscuous, lust-driven sluts who don't care who or what they screw so long as it's male and has a pulse. But they can't say that out loud, can they? LOL
But the main reason is that homophobes=stupid.
Also, I wish the "We must keep our laws as they are because we people are still conservative, so let's wait until we've changed!" argument would just die already. All it does is to retain and perpetuate that existing conservatism under the mask of paying lip service to the idea that maybe, just maaaybe, the status quo might tolerate gays in the far, far future. As if tolerance and freedom were things that had to be here already before they could be practised. As if tolerance and freedom did not consist of practising tolerance and freedom in the first place.
That argument of keeping the law due to conservatives is bullshit because:
1. conservatives object to the casinos and still the government went ahead. Also the ministerial pay and gst increment. And the chewing gum incident. I think most people objected to the ban of chewing gum, yet the government went ahead anyway. Our government is not afraid of making difficult decisions, so the excuse about the conservative it gives is bullshit.
2. People's mindset changes with the law. You change the law, so people will change their thinking. In America, there were so many people who didn't want Blacks to have equal rights. It was only when the Court had anti-discrimination laws that racism ceased or at least is diminished.
i agree with what you said. strangely, i do think that our biggest enemies are ourselves.
i support otto. i can't be bothered to reason with hate. i'm spending my energy and resources and time just supporting those who come out, etc.
whose greater good?
down with the good!
~Anti-paladin Chaotic Evil. level 3
We have not even begin to talk about child molester, old man who rapes 10 yrs old kids and ended up killing them, etc yet
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