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I have been following Otto Fong's, a Singapore teacher who came out on his blog, case quite closely. 

[info]mollymeekhas a brilliant analysis in which she claims that it doesn't matter if Fong is dismissed from the public service for he and other people fighting for political freedom have already lost mainly because they do not have the freedom of speech.  [info]mollymeek writes: "If [Fong] is sacked, it will be a signal to gays (particularly gay teachers) that they are not accepted and it will be a signal to anti-gay people that there [sic] views are still respected. There will simply be societal regression. On the other hand, if Fong is not sacked, this case will probably be used as a great example that gays are actually 'tolerated' or even accepted in this society. 'Look, you are not at risk just because you are gay.' Which simply is not true."

Her analysis is so brilliant I wish I wrote it! But I don't want to talk about human rights; I want to talk about bigotry. Let's take "Ponder" for example. S/he writes:

"Is he encouraging RI students to experiment with homosexuality? I believe that many gays started out when someone older approaches them and manages to persuade them that it is ok to experiment with their sexuality. With blogs like Otto’s, these teenagers would be much more easily 'persuaded'. If an adult wants to be a gay, then I would say that they are making a choice as a mature person. But to impart such values to impressionable teens (especially by a teacher), then I say that is stepping out of line."

My response: If we can encourage a homosexual lifestyle, why don’t we encourage a heterosexual lifestyle to the gays? In this way, everyone will be straight.

Or Mr Guay, who describes himself as a "teacher in training". He says:

"1. There's no need to declare you're gay. Same reason why I don't declare myself a straight person, nor the fact that I enjoy gambling especially mahjong. What's the point?
2. If he has truly loved teaching, and loved his students (pun intended...), then he would not have done something to jepoardise [sic] his teaching career.
3. I would admire him more for suppressing his own desire for whatever he seeks, so as to serve the greater good."

My response: 

"1. You don't have to declare yourself as a straight person because the society takes it for granted you're straight. From this, we can see the bias of a society: heterosexuals on top, homosexuals at the bottom. The point of Otto Fong's declaration is 'silence = death'. He needs to be honest with himself and others if he wants to start living his own life. 

2. You gotta be kidding me, right? Do you want your career or your life?

3. I would admire you more for suppressing your own heterosexual desire for whatever you seek, so as to serve the greater good, i.e., if you don't marry and have children, you'll have more time for your students. I think you should sacrifice your life for the greater good."

(How I worry for our future generation when we have teachers like Mr. Guay.)

From the two case studies, we can conclude that bigotry=stupidity. Being a bigot doesn't give one the right to be stupid. If you're a bigot, then at least be intelligent in your prejudice and hatred! Will the real smartass bigot please stand up? 

At this point, I would like to invite all bigots back to your closets. The world is not big enough for you.

Comments

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[info]redwheel69 wrote:
Sep. 12th, 2007 03:45 am (UTC)
Why are homophobes always so worried about gay teachers corrupting male students? I mean, I don't see those same people worrying about male hetero teachers molesting female students, or female hetero teachers molesting male students.

Oh wait, I forgot - according to those people, gays are all depraved, promiscuous, lust-driven sluts who don't care who or what they screw so long as it's male and has a pulse. But they can't say that out loud, can they? LOL
[info]hansel25 wrote:
Sep. 12th, 2007 03:57 am (UTC)
Many answers to your question: media portrayal; government's ideology; culture; conservative upbringing, etc.

But the main reason is that homophobes=stupid.
[info]redwheel69 wrote:
Sep. 12th, 2007 04:51 am (UTC)
I have personal experience with one such incredibly stupid homophobe - myself. Or rather, myself up to my JC days. Vis-a-vis my own sexuality, it's not even anything as grand and dramatic as self-loathing. It's more like an obtuse inability to see any sexual desire I felt for various males for what it was, and to reason it away as male bonding. LOL

Also, I wish the "We must keep our laws as they are because we people are still conservative, so let's wait until we've changed!" argument would just die already. All it does is to retain and perpetuate that existing conservatism under the mask of paying lip service to the idea that maybe, just maaaybe, the status quo might tolerate gays in the far, far future. As if tolerance and freedom were things that had to be here already before they could be practised. As if tolerance and freedom did not consist of practising tolerance and freedom in the first place.
[info]hansel25 wrote:
Sep. 12th, 2007 05:09 am (UTC)
I doubt it's your fault while you were growing up. It's extremely difficult to admit to oneself that one is gay especially in a country like Singapore. As teenagers, we all wanted to be in the "in" group; we were afraid to be different.

That argument of keeping the law due to conservatives is bullshit because:

1. conservatives object to the casinos and still the government went ahead. Also the ministerial pay and gst increment. And the chewing gum incident. I think most people objected to the ban of chewing gum, yet the government went ahead anyway. Our government is not afraid of making difficult decisions, so the excuse about the conservative it gives is bullshit.

2. People's mindset changes with the law. You change the law, so people will change their thinking. In America, there were so many people who didn't want Blacks to have equal rights. It was only when the Court had anti-discrimination laws that racism ceased or at least is diminished.
[info]boyundone wrote:
Sep. 12th, 2007 05:01 pm (UTC)

i agree with what you said. strangely, i do think that our biggest enemies are ourselves.
[info]runecircle wrote:
Sep. 12th, 2007 05:24 pm (UTC)
kudos to you for being able to admit it.

i support otto. i can't be bothered to reason with hate. i'm spending my energy and resources and time just supporting those who come out, etc.
[info]roidsrage wrote:
Sep. 12th, 2007 04:39 am (UTC)
good grief, the greater good.

whose greater good?
down with the good!

~Anti-paladin Chaotic Evil. level 3
[info]comb_80 wrote:
Sep. 12th, 2007 09:19 am (UTC)
Great Post *Salute*

We have not even begin to talk about child molester, old man who rapes 10 yrs old kids and ended up killing them, etc yet
[info]hansel25 wrote:
Sep. 12th, 2007 05:41 pm (UTC)
Nah, I'm just repeating what others have said before.
(Anonymous) wrote:
Sep. 13th, 2007 04:01 am (UTC)
Hi hansel,

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